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The choices that make a significant difference in our lives.
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The choices that make a significant difference in our lives are the tough ones. They’re not often fun or easy, but they’re the ones we have to make. Each is a deliberate step toward better understanding who we really are.
– Alexandra Stoddard, writer, political commentator

October 9, 2009 | 1:05 PM Comments  0 comments
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THE FOLLOWING WILL HELP TO COMBAT CRIMES IN NIGERIA!!!
Related to country: Nigeria
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THE FOLLOWING WILL HELP TO COMBAT CRIMES IN NIGERIA!!!
(1)RETRAIN ALL OUR POLICEMEN:
All our security personnels starting from the IGP need retraining on their jobs to learn / agree / sign to reject bribery and corruption in all shapes or forms.This includes retired military men because if they do not work with the criminals,
armed robbery will stop.

(2)GOVT.should create jobs especially for young university graduates who have finished their YOUTH SERVICE. While
they remain unemployed, they should be paid UNEMPLOYMENT BENEFITS as is the case in US.

(3)OVERHAUL OF EDUCATIONAL SYSTEM: Our universities should create opportunities for a WORK/STUDY PROGRAM
as is the case in US, and Britain etc.. Also GOVT. should grant
loans to students, to start refunding when employed after graduation. The present system whereby the entire burden of funding falls on parents is flawed,and gives room for frustrated students to take to crimes.

(4) SCHOLARSHIPS: The old system of SCHOLARSHIPS TO GIFTED STUDENTS should be restarted so that gifted students can be selected on merits, and trained to boost the required manpower

(5)STOP TAXING STUDENTS: The universities tax the students unnecessarily;lecturers extort money from students for HAND OUTS, DEVELOPMENT LEVY, SCRATCH CARDS, and BRIBE FOR YOUTHE CORPS POSTINGS. Thousands of graduates who cannot afford the bribe remain on the waiting list for years after graduation.

(5) The REBRANDING CAMPAIGN should be expanded to university campuses in form of "THE WAR AGAINST CORRUPTION"
(6) EMERGENCY POLICE SQUADS should be deployed in all townships,and rural areas instead of their hanging on highways to collect money from motorists,ans OKADA operators.
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Mazi Godwin Anyaogu

September 13, 2009 | 8:18 AM Comments  0 comments
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Ritural killings in Nigeria
Related to country: Nigeria
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August 30, 2009 | 8:32 AM Comments  0 comments
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18 year old girl beheaded for rituals in Imo, Nigeria
Related to country: Nigeria
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August 30, 2009 | 8:29 AM Comments  0 comments
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HOUSE OF EXCUSES
Related to country: Nigeria
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Guys,
Nigerians in America live in the house of Excuses.We want a beautiful Nigeria,but we do not want to participate in creating one.These are some of our Excuses for not moving back home to contribute,namely;
1] The roads are bad.
2]No steady electricity.
3]No running water.
4]The crime is so high.
5]The government is so corrupt.
6]No employment.
7]No health care.
8]The Education system is bad.
9]The sanitation is poor,and so on.

First,we have to move from the house of Excuses to the house of Responsibility.We must accept the fact that the Nigeria we want must be created by us.We must be willing to get our hands dirty inorder to create the Nigeria we want.
Air strike alone has not won wars.Air strike must be accompanied with foot soldeirs to capture and transform a place.If we are not willing to do this,we should keep our wisdom and intelligence to ourselves.
Guys,nothing will replace our presence in Nigeria.

by Ambrose E.Mmonu

August 11, 2009 | 4:58 PM Comments  1 comments


Nigerian visa applicant tortured at Polish Embassy
Related to country: Poland
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The deaths and killings of Nigerians in Diaspora are lamentable, but if back home in Nigeria fellow citizens are treated like animals, where is our locus to demand and expect decent treatment from foreigners abroad?



When a friend was telling me the story of a Nigerian beaten to pulp a Polish Embassy, my mind expected another disheartening story of innocent Nigerians whose only crime was to find themselves as economic migrants in a foreign land suffering ill-treatment and brutality from another western country.



But lo and behold, it was Mr Rasaq Salami, an Abuja-based businessman, who left his home in the early hours of Friday, March 20, 2009, to visit the Polish Embassy, located in the capital city of his own country, Abuja to retrieve the passport of his friend, Mr Mustapha Bakare which had been submitted for visa.

According to the SUN Newspapers, Soon after stepping into the premises of the Polish Embassy in Abuja, Salami was beaten black and blue by police officers attached to the embassy. After the security operatives finished with him, Salami was taken straight to the Maitama General Hospital where he was still recuperating almost two weeks after his ordeal.


Salami’s story to Sunday Sun was that Nigerian policemen and other security operatives at the embassy premises pounced on him like a common felon. According to him, his trouble started about 1.30 pm when he arrived at the embassy. They knocked at the gate and heard a voice, probably that of the security man, asking them “my friend, who is that knocking on the window?”


“From nowhere, the private security man opened the gate and a police constable started raining abuses on me. I asked him to tell me my sin for which he was insulting me”, he said.


According to him, the angry policeman got annoyed that he dared reply and challenge him and threatened to slap him.


“When I challenged him further that it was not proper for him to slap me without knowing my sin and the purpose of my visit, he held my shirt and dragged me into the compound and started punching and hitting me on the head, kicking me when I fell down on the ground,” he said.


Thoroughly overawed, Salami continued, “When I managed to get up, I headed to the door of the building but the police officer went in, dressed properly and brought out his gun and continued hitting me on my leg with the gun until my leg got broken…They tagged me a criminal and terrorist, and a white man standing by the door urged them to deal with me. When they were done with me, they asked me to walk out of the compound. But already I had fracture on my right leg and I told them I could not stand and so I could not walk. They dragged me out of the gate.”


According to the SUN, the Polish Ambassador Designate, Przemyslaw Niesiolowski, confirmed the incident but denied reports that he supervised his beating and ordered the police to deal with him. He claimed he was not in Abuja at the time the incident occurred but refuted claims by Salami and his friend, Bakare, that they were at the embassy to collect Bakare’s passport but justified the action of the security men against the victim.


It is unfortunate to say the least, that Nigerians would suffer this indignity in their homelands. Before this we hade been regaled with news of deaths and killings of Nigerians in Diaspora. There have been cases of Nigerians killed in Belgium, China, Ukraine and Spain in 2009 alone.


In Spain 2007, a Nigerian whose only offence was that he had no resident permit and therefore had to be deported was beaten, injected with what was later known as a tranquilizer with his mouth being closed with a plastic tape and both hands and legs firmly tied with ropes. They loaded him into the plane covering him with a sack thereby preventing him from passengers view. His killers tied his hands and legs with mouth closed and killed as common criminal.


In 2001 - The result of the autopsy of the Nigerian Samson Chukwu, who died during the procedure of a forcible deportation in Granges near Sion does not leave any doubt: The police officers have applied a method for handcuffing the Nigerian, which is well-known for being possibly lethal, and of whose application is warned in the appropriate literature. Forcing the victim to lie on the stomach with the hands cuffed behind the back, including a police officer to press on the thorax, prevented the necessary respiration. This led to the asphyxia of Samson Chukwu.


In 1999, a 25-year-old Nigerian asylum-seeker, Marcus Omofuma suffocated after being gagged and bound during his forced deportation from Vienna to Nigeria, via Sofia, Bulgaria On 15 April, after more than 50 hours of deliberation, Korneuburg Regional Court found the three police officers guilty of the crime of 'negligent manslaughter in particularly dangerous conditions and sentenced them to eight-month suspended prison terms. The verdict was criticized by some civil society groups due to its alleged leniency. Despite the verdicts of guilt, the police officers will continue to serve in the police force.


In March 1999, a Brussels court decided that five gendarmes should stand trial in connection with the death in September 1998 of Semira Adamu, a 20-year-old rejected asylum seeker from Nigeria after an attempt to deport her forcibly from Brussels-National airport led to her death.


Officers pushed her face into a cushion placed on the knees of one of them and pressed down on her back, she began to struggle. The so-called ''cushion technique'' - a method of restraint authorized by the Ministry of Interior at that time but since banned - allowed gendarmes to press a cushion against the mouth, but not the nose. Semira Adamu's face was pressed against the cushion for over 10 minutes and she fell into a coma as her brain became starved of oxygen. She died of a brain haemorrhage later that day.


These deaths and killings of Nigerians in Diaspora are lamentable, but if back home in Nigeria fellow citizens are treated like animals, where is our locus to demand and expect decent treatment from foreigners abroad?

http://www.elombah.com/index. php?option= com_content&view=article&id=632:nigerian- visa-applicant- tortured- at-polish- embassy&catid=25:politics&Itemid=37



from Daniel Elombah
Publisher: www.elombah. com
(A Nigerian Perspective on world affairs)

April 25, 2009 | 7:20 AM Comments  0 comments
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Nigeria Moves to Address Chronic Power Outages
Related to country: Nigeria
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Nigeria Moves to Address Chronic Power Outages

By WILL CONNORS
LAGOS, Nigeria -- Officials here are embarking on a costly drive to revamp Nigeria's power sector as the government struggles to keep the lights on.

After months of delays and political maneuverings, the government of Africa's largest oil producer approved this month a plan to allocate over $5 billion in emergency funding to repair its power sector. The money is slated to come from the country's excess crude-oil account. It's a huge outlay, accounting for some 40% of the rainy-day fund's current value of $13.5 billion.
Dozens of power lines crisscross an electronics market in Lagos, Nigeria. The government is beginning an overhaul of the country's power sector.

The new spending program underscores a realization among top officials about the extent of Nigeria's power problems. Many analysts consider the lack of reliable power the biggest impediment to economic growth in Nigeria -- bigger even than the estimated annual loss of billions of dollars in oil revenues to smuggling and corruption.

The large majority of Nigerians, over 70% of whom live on less than $1 a day, often go without reliable access to electricity. Those who can afford them operate costly diesel or gasoline-based generators because of daily blackouts. One neighborhood in Lagos recently went without power for a month. Those who can't afford generators use inefficient kerosene lamps.

Big companies like Procter & Gamble Co. and Coca-Cola Co. have resorted to running generators to provide power to 100% of their operations, pushing costs in Nigeria 10% and even 20% higher than in neighboring countries, executives say. Other foreign companies have pulled out of Nigeria, citing high energy costs as one of the primary reasons for doing so.

South Africa, with a third of the population, has more than 10 times the power generating capacity of Nigeria.

The new funding will go toward improving existing grid infrastructure and funding public-private partnerships, the government has said.

Whether the money from the country's windfall oil account will be used properly remains a critical question. The federal power authority, the Power Holding Company of Nigeria, like many of Nigeria's government institutions, has earned a reputation for inefficiency. Critics accuse it of being driven by the financial and political interests of its officials and others in the government.

PHCN officials didn't respond to requests to comment.

The current government estimates the previous administration of President Olusegun Obasanjo spent freely but without oversight, channeling $10 billion to the power sector during his eight-year rule. Most of this money, however, went unaccounted for, and senior lawmakers have recently put the figure of misplaced funds used for the power sector closer to $16 billion.

The current government of President Umaru Yar'Adua made fixing the country's dilapidated power infrastructure a hallmark of his 2007 campaign. But the gap between electricity supply and demand in Africa's most populous country has only worsened since he took over.

This week, seven senior officials from the country's electricity regulatory body, the National Electricity Regulatory Commission, were arrested and charged with fraud, accused of diverting $33 million in state funds for their personal use.

Mr. Yar'Adua has set power production goals of some 6,000 megawatts by the end of this year and 10,000 megawatts by the end of 2010. Few see these goals being met. In 2008, power production dropped on one occasion to as low as 800 megawatts, according to the state power company. Current production is between 2,000 and 3,000 megawatts, according to the government.

"There were three days when no power at all was generated by the Nigerian government," said one official involved in high-level, power-sector reform talks with the government. "The worst part was, nobody at [the government power agency] noticed."

Amid the power crisis, several state governors, in an attempt to bypass the federal bureaucracy in the capital Abuja, have sought private funding to build their own power plants.

The governor of Kwara State, in southwestern Nigeria, has built a small power plant, funding it without federal support. The governor of Rivers State has been in negotiations to wrest control of energy distribution.

April 25, 2009 | 7:20 AM Comments  0 comments
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Swine Flu
Related to country: Mexico
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A strain of flu never seen before has killed up to 68 people in Mexico and spread to the US. Skip related content

Mexico's government said at least 20 people have died of the disease in central Mexico and that it may also have been responsible for 48 other deaths.

Mexico reported more than 1,000 suspected cases and four possible cases were also seen in Mexicali, right on the border with California. In the US, eight people were infected but recovered, health officials said.

The World Health Organisation (WHO) said tests showed the virus from 12 of the Mexican patients was the same genetically as a new strain of swine flu, designated H1N1, seen in eight patients in California and Texas.

Global health officials are not ready to declare a pandemic - a global epidemic of a new and deadly disease such as flu - but the new virus raised fears of a major outbreak.

Mexico's government has cancelled classes for millions of children in its sprawling capital city and surrounding areas. All large public events like concerts were suspended in Mexico City.

Close analysis showed the disease is a never-before-seen mixture of swine, human and avian viruses, according to the US Centrers for Disease Control and Prevention.

Most of the Mexican dead were aged between 25 and 45, a Mexican health official said. Seasonal flu can be more deadly among the very young and the very old but a hallmark of pandemics is that they affect healthy young adults.

Humans can occasionally catch swine flu from pigs but rarely have they been known to pass it on to other people.

http://uk.news.yahoo.com/4/20090425/twl-flu-outbreak-reaches-us-41f21e0.html

April 25, 2009 | 6:47 AM Comments  2 comments
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Black Monday: Robbers kill over 30 in Anambra
Related to country: Nigeria
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Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Hell was literally let loose in Anambra State on Monday as armed robbers shot and killed over 30 people. The victims who included policemen, commuters and a soldier were felled during a shoot out that lasted for about two hours.
According to eyewitnesses, the armed robbers who operated with one Toyota Hilux, Hiace Commuter and one jeep were on the trail of a bullion van that took off from Onitsha to Nnewi through Oba old road. They were said to have launched an attack on the van within Oba area in Idemili South Local Government Area, Anambra State.
During the shoot out with the police joint patrol team, Daily Sun gathered, passengers in buses and other vehicles that were trapped in the scene fell victim as some of them including three pregnant women were shot dead while others were seriously wounded. Our source said that the hoodlums blocked the expressway by Oba junction new and old roads to avoid disruption before they began the operation.
The bandits were said to have set the bullion van ablaze along with two other vehicles but as at the time of filing this report it was not certain whether they succeeded in breaking the bullion van or not before burning it.
Like demons from hell, Daily Sun was told that the armed robbers ran amock ran wild as stormed Nnobi road towards Oraukwu and Adani shooting indiscriminately at commuters as they made for escape. Our source said that a tipper lorry driver was shot dead in the rampage.
Some of the corpses were deposited at Nnamdi Azikiwe University Teaching Hospital (NAUTH) while others were taken to nearby hospitals as (NAUTH) mortuary was already congested, according to an official of the hospital.
A doctor at NAUTH casualty ward who pleaded anonymity said there were over 15 victims with serious bullet wounds receiving medical attention at the ward.
One commercial bus driver, Mr Ifeanyi whose bus was also attacked near Oraukwu junction said two men and a woman were shot dead in his bus by the armed robbers.
When contacted, the Police Public Relations Officer, Mr Fidelis Agbo (CSP) confirmed the incident. According to Mr Agbo three police officers, one soldier and four commuters were feared dead.
He said that the police have spread their dragnet to apprehend the dare-devils as none of the armed robbers was killed during the gun battle.
Meanwhile, two suspected armed robbers were killed and two others seriously wounded in a shoot out with the police along Ogoja Road Abakaliki, the Ebonyi State capital on Monday bringing to 11 killed in two separate attacks within one week in the state.
The Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), ASP Chris Anyanwu said the hoodlums operating with two motorcycles marked QB 780 ZLL and WF 189 ENU had trailed their victim, one Mr. Simon Iseh from a bank to his petrol station and robbed him of the sum of over N1.2 million at gun point.
He said that the hoodlums, after snatching the money were intercepted at Nwokpo junction along Ogoja road while trying to escape with their loot.
He stated that items recovered from the bandits include two locally made pistols, four GSM handset, and some objects suspected to be charms.
Anyanwu gave the names of the suspected armed gang as Ogbonna Sunday from Agbaja Umuhu in Izzi local government area of Ebonyi State and Orji Calistus from Amaorji Nenwe in Agwu local government area of Enugu State while the two that died at the spot were identified as Jude and Ernest.
The robbery victim, Hon Simon Iseh, pioneer Minority Leader of the Ebonyi State House of Assembly, said that he left his house early in the morning to the bank to make some withdrawals but was delayed for some time at the bank.
“I came out of the bank and never suspected anything. I entered my car and drove off not knowing I was being followed.”
“On getting down at the petrol station four boys jumped down from two motorcycles,’ at gun point they asked me to hand over my car keys which I immediately did. Having collected my car keys, they also commanded me to hand over the money I withdrew from the bank. I realized that if I had refused to hand over the money they would possibly shoot me, so I handed over the money to them and immediately, they drove away in the opposite direction heading towards rice mill.”
He said that it was his salesgirls who, perhaps, observed what happened that raised alarm. “Fortunately for me, the Scorpion team of the Ebonyi State police command were driving towards the direction the hoodlum went and we had to alert them of the robbery attack. On sighting the police patrol van they opened fire and the police retaliated leading to the killing of two of the robbers while two others received gun shot wounds.”
The former House of Assembly member said that of the over N1.2 million snatched from him only N795,000 was recovered while the balanced could not be traced as at press time
ASP Anyanwu attributed the recent successes of the state police command to the determination of the force to curb crime in the state, adding that the command would continue to ensure that the state is safe for habitation.

April 24, 2009 | 9:23 AM Comments  0 comments
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Easing Cuban Restrictions: Good or Bad?
Related to country: Cuba
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April 17, 2009


Watch Low Band CBNNews.com - The Obama administration has announced plans to loosen restrictions on how Americans can visit and do business with Cuba.

The changes mean that Cuban Americans can visit family on the island anytime they want. And they can send as much money as they wish to relatives there.

Former Cuban leader Fidel Castro says the U.S.should go further and lift what he calls the cruel trade embargo.

But on the same day the U.S. made its announcement, Cuba denied visas to members of the U.S. Commission on International Religious Freedom.

The group had planned a trip to the country to evaluate the state of religious freedom in the island nation.

The commission says it will continue to apply for visas.

http://www.cbn.com/CBNnews/579832.aspx

April 24, 2009 | 9:23 AM Comments  0 comments
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Without GOD, our week would be
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Without GOD, our week would be:

Sinday, Mournday, Tearsday, Wasteday,
Thirstday, Fightday & Shatterday.

If you are not ashamed of GOD, pass it on.

Remember seven days WITHOUT GOD makes
one WEAK!!
































April 24, 2009 | 8:59 AM Comments  0 comments
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45 Nigerian Deported From Equatorial Guinea
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Thursday, April 16,

Deportees raise the alarm over Nigerians'

By Friday Olokor, Oyetunji Abioye and Emeka Ezekiel

The 45 Nigerians deported on Tuesday by the Equatorial Guinea Government have expressed fears on the whereabouts of 11 others, saying they may have been killed in that country.
They also demanded the release of the 15 corpses of Nigerians killed for proper burial at home and $100m compensation to the owners of seized boats and the detainees.

Out of the 128 Nigerians detained by the government of that country, 11 of them were removed from their cell, to an unknown destination, while efforts to trace them have proved futile.

A statement entitled, Report of Assault on Nigerian businessmen and Sailors in Malabo by the Government of Equatorial Guinea, signed by the Secretary-General of Nigeria/Malabo Boat Owners Association, Mr. Wisdom Archibong and made available to our correspondent in Lagos on Wednesday, also alleged that 12 of them died through torture and shooting.

They were arrested on February 17 by a combined team of Equatorial Guinea Police, Navy and Army who took 98 sailors and 30 other Nigerians and detained at the Central Police Station in Malabo.

Three of the people shot dead, alleged Archibong, included one Mr. Sola Jide, adding that "three of the people in the boat were tortured to death, including a woman. The Equatorial Guinea Police, after killing them, placed guns on their bodies, took photographs and branded them militants.''

He stated that despite complaints to the Nigerian government, the Consul-General remained mute over the matter.

But the spokesperson of the Foreign Affairs Ministry, Mr. Ayo Olukanni, told The PUNCH on the phone that "both the Nigerian Mission in Malabo, Equatorial Guinea and the Federal Government have taken up the issue to ensure that the rights of our people are protected.''

Reacting to the development, human rights advocate, Mr. Femi Falana, told our correspondent that he would reach out to the Minister of Foreign Affairs and draw the attention of the government to the plight of Nigerians in Equatorial Guinea.

April 19, 2009 | 5:48 PM Comments  0 comments
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How my father held me down and raped me almost every night for 17 months
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Joke KUJENYA

As the hand of the clock ticked one minute after another on the night of Friday, August 22, 2007, Ibidunni, 14, had no inkling of the evil that had laid ambush for her behind the closed doors of her father’s self-contained three-bedroom home in Okota area of Lagos.
Dutifully, she had cleared the table after her father, Mr. Kolawole Odunuga (not real names), ate the food she had cooked for the family and served on his return from his office that night.
Earlier in the day, she had returned from school full of life. According to some of her teachers’ remarks on a few of her report cards made available to The Nation’s correspondent, she was an average SS III student. All she needed was some brush-ups here and there and she would blossom academically. Though, naturally timid and respectful, close dealings with the young girl revealed that she has plans for the future if nudged and guided towards that brilliant tomorrow.
That was the summation of Ibidunni’s life until a little into the early hours of the night when a hand gently roused her from sleep and what happened next was to change her life unexpectedly.
Recounting her ordeal that began that night and later went on for the next 17 months, she said: "When I felt a hand on me beating me, to wake me up, I was afraid. I thought armed robbers had entered our house and were waking us all up. So, I jumped up quickly and swiftly too, my dad grabbed me and said I should not shout, that he only woke me to talk with me. So, I became relaxed. Then he said I had to follow him to the parlour for the talk. Since he was my dad, I just followed him without any suspicion. Abi, why should I be afraid of my dad?
"When we got to the parlour, we both sat down on separate chairs and I was facing him. He then began by saying that I had offended him and that he had been finding it difficult to forgive me. Quickly, I slipped off the chair and knelt down saying: ‘Daddy, I am sorry. I didn’t know that I offended you’. He told me to sit down, that it was not just something that I would beg him like that and go off. To me, I just felt that he would give me a stiff punishment and that would be it.
"The next thing my dad said was, ‘If you can remove your night gown and lie on the bed for me to have sex with you, it will be the end of my anger with you’. I just jumped up and shouted, ‘Baba mi’! I then covered my mouth with my hands while and began to cry. I started begging him. Terrible fear gripped me and I felt like running out of the house that night, but he would have stopped me as he was sitting towards the door. I begged and begged him but he would not hear my pleas," Ibidunni recounted her ordeal.
Weeks before the shameful act, Ibidunni said she had subtly told her father’s lady-friend who often visited, that she (the lady) should stop coming to their house because their father was still married to their mother. The mum, Mrs. Felicia Odunnuga (not real names), has been posted to the new office in the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), Abuja. "But she comes home from time to time to spend time with her family of over two decades."
Ibidunni added that one time, he had overheard the lady complaining to her dad that he was just sleeping with her and making her ‘wash off’ pregnancies each time she told him she was pregnant.
"It was such a loud and harsh exchange among them that I was afraid for my mother, me and my two siblings. So, I decided within me that I would talk with the lady, who had been really nice to us. She never really interfered with our relationship with our dad. And she often did the cooking; I only cooked once in a while. But each time she and my dad quarrelled, I would cook for as long as she stayed away from our house.
"But when they settled their quarrel, we would see her coming around again. So, it was during one of the days she came that I told her about my mum.
"So that night, my father pulled me to himself and touched my breasts painfully. I tried to scream but he said he would kill me if I did. He dragged me to his bed and forced his way into my body. I cried and cried for help but no one could hear me, not even my younger ones in the other room because he had muffled my mouth with his singlet. When he finished, he told me to clean up, that what he did to me was a good punishment for not minding my business.
"I went back to my room and cried. In the morning, I could not look at my father. When he was going out, he just dropped money for me on the table and left for work. I wept at home and wept in school. I was so sad that one of my female teachers called me and asked what the problem was. I lied to her in response.
"When I got home on that first day, I was very afraid to see my father return from work. I quickly cooked food for the family, served his portion and kept to my room. He too did not even bother to call me when he got back. Things went on like that till the next Tuesday, August 26, 2008. He came in, ate quietly and everyone went to bed.
"Then about 1.00a.m, he came to my side again and woke me up. This time, he was looking firm. As soon as I followed him shivering, he just said: "Bo aso e ko sun si ori bed yen" (just remove your dress and lie on that bed...). I started begging him and crying, he just told me that if I wasted his time, he would deal with me terribly.
"And when he felt I was wasting his time, he just pulled and threw me on the bed.
"Then he came and laid on me and had sex with me again. All through, I cried so much but my father just had his way. When he finished this time, he threw a pack of tablets at me and told me to take two immediately. I was reluctant because I thought he wanted to kill me. But he shouted at me to take the drugs if I didn’t want to be pregnant for my father and become the laughing stock of the whole neighbourhood.
"I quickly swallowed two pills and he gave me instructions on how to take the remaining.
"That was how I entered into weekly and sometimes daily bouts of sexual assault with my father. I only had breaks when either my mother or the girlfriend was around. "I became sad and withdrawn and could not mix freely with my peers again. Everyone would at one time or the other ask me what my problem was; but I was never able to tell anyone. My dad even went as far as sleeping with me on some weekend afternoons when he felt like it. He threatened me not to tell my mother or anybody and that if I did, he would poison me.
"One day, the woman who brought me to you (The Nation correspondent) called and said she noticed that I was always sad and withdrawn and wanted to know why I was always keeping to myself. I told her nothing. Then she just said: ‘Ibidun, is your father molesting you sexually?’ I looked at her and was afraid and I thought she probably had been hearing my cries or peeping through our window.
"But before I could say anything, the woman said: "Look, when I was about your age, my father did the same to me. He slept with me and even wounded me until one day, I hit him on the head with a hard object and he was rushed to the hospital. He could not tell anyone what happened to his head but he kept lying that he fell or something like that...
"As the woman spoke, I started nodding my head and crying. Then, she stopped and asked, ‘For how long?’ And I told her since August 22, 2007. She was the one who did the calculation as at the time she was speaking with me and said it was about 17 months.
"The next day, she took me to the hospital for HIV/AIDS, Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) and Sexually Transmission Infections (STIs) tests. After that, she took me to one Police Station not far from our house and we lodged complaints and they went to arrest my father.
"Later, my mother was called back from Abuja and she was told everything. My mother broke down in tears; my younger ones, and in fact, the entire family on both sides got to know. Then, I was taken away from the house and to this place (where The Nation correspondent met and spoke with her)."
There was a mild drama shortly before Ibidunni’s mother was told the truth. When she was summoned from Abuja, she was afraid, thinking her husband had died.
But Ibidunni told her: "Mummy, daddy is not dead. But something terrible happened which you must know about."
And when she was told, the mother slumped and fainted. She was later revived at the hospital.
When police interrogated Mr. Odunuga for the alleged incest against his daughter, he was said to have blamed it on the "devil".
He repeated the statement to a point that one of the policemen bawled at him: "Shut up your mouth! And why did you stand there watching the ‘devil’ defile your daughter and you did nothing abut it"?
At that point, he bowed his head in apparent shame.
Ibidunni is in a way getting her life back but she was encouraged to share her story so that she could unburden her heart and perhaps, others may learn from her encounter.
Juliana lives in Fagbe area of Agefe, a suburb in Lagos. She is a heady girl that would not readily heed her mother’s caution. To her, mum is ‘Old School‘who does not want her to enjoy freely with her peers. On one of her nights-out, she was returning home about 9.40pm when out of nowhere, two boys grabbed her from behind and carried her into a nearby uncompleted building and took turns to defile her.
She wailed aloud but no one could come to her rescue. After the action, the boys ran away and left her there. She pulled herself together and told her mother what just befell her. The next day, her mother called a friend and told her the daughter’s previous night ordeal. Eventually, another person was informed and Juliana was taken to the hospital for medical check-up and treatment.
Across Nigeria, horrific stories of incest and others such as gang rape occur daily. But the culture of silence usually adopted by the victims and their parents often makes many cases go unreported.
Rape is described as a forced and an unwanted sexual intercourse. Also called sexual assault, it is said to be more about the use of power in which the rapist uses actual force or violence or the threat of it to take control over another human being. And rape can happen to men and women of any age.
Generally, rape is said to be more about power than sex. Some rapists are even said to use drugs to take away the person’s ability to fight back. This confers on the act of rape, a criminal stance whether the person committing it is a stranger, a date, an acquaintance or a family member.
No matter how it occurs, rape is frightening and traumatising and that is why the victims need care, comfort and means of getting over it and to be emotionally healed, among others.
Mrs. Princess Olufemi-Kayode, Executive-in-Charge, Media Concern Initiative for Women and Children, based in Ogba, Ikeja, Lagos, said in the Nigerian situation, estimates depend on how rape is defined and measured and those based on police statistics are virtually useless because most rapes are never reported to the authorities.
She added that the prevalence of Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) in general has also been very difficult to obtain in Nigeria. However, "due to our work on sexual violence in MEDIACON, we have a Media Monitoring component to our work, as well as a Crisis Response Centre (CRC).
"Therefore, the data I am giving here is from both sources. In the past three years, we have seen an average of 10 cases reported in the Nigerian media monthly while, our Crisis Response Centre has an increasingly growing number of cases. By reports from our Helplines between 2005 and 2007, we have had over 20 cases reported monthly and from 2008 till date, it has increased to over 30 cases from all over the nation. The cases that come to the CRC and tap into services offered are about 5–10 monthly. Together, I can say that there are reports of nearly 50 cases monthly."
On why people rape, she said individual rapists may have a variety of motivations.
For instance, "A man may rape because he wants to impress his friends by losing his virginity or because he wants to avenge himself against a girl or woman who has spurned him. However, it is an abuse, a violation and violence against the victim. One aspect of the puzzle of why some men rape is that they rape without punishment, because they can get away with it."
She added: "As a purely scientific puzzle, the problem is hard enough. But it is further roiled by strong ideological currents. Many social theorists view rape not only as an ugly crime but as a symptom of an unhealthy society, in which men fear and disrespect women.
Olufemi-Kayode’s submission could actually be buttressed by this story: A young girl, Patricia, had read Dramatic Arts from the Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU), 2005/2006 academic session.
On completing her education and the compulsory National Youths Corps Service year in 2007, she needed a job. So, her elder sister took her to a prominent Nigerian actor (names withheld).
The actor, a male, handsome no doubt, had other plans beyond helping the girl secure an acting slot in the world of Nollywood. As time went by, he gave the girl one appointment or the other until a final day that he told the girl she would have to wait in his house.
"They went to his house and during the wait, he offered to play the game of Scrabble with the girl. Then he gave the girl some ground rules for the game. He reportedly told Patricia that, if he won, she would remove each of her wears apiece; and if she won, he would be told by her to do same.
The young woman sensed danger and quickly got up on her feet, possibly to run out of the house. But the randy actor who knew his devilish intent had locked the doors to the house with a remote control button.
Then, he reportedly became violent with the girl since it was obvious she was not willing to play ball with him. Obviously able to overpower the girl, he had his way into her and dropped some wads of money on her body to take care of herself whenever she was ready to leave his house. But the girl refused to touch the money dropped on her body but she narrated the ordeal to her elder sister who was the link between her and the actor.
The sister apparently confronted the actor who allegedly apologised and confessed that it was Patricia’s beauty that mesmerised and got the better part of him. But the elder sister, obviously furious, told as many of her media contacts as she can reach at the time to help her publicise the actor’s shameful act.
With time, however, the issue went the way of others and was gradually phased out of memory as the actor reportedly made counter-moves by meeting his friends in the media to ‘kill’ the story and save his name and image.



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Love One Another
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Love One Another 1 Jn 3:11-18 ESV


For this is the message that you have heard from the beginning, that we should love one another. We should not be like Cain, who was of the evil one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his own deeds were evil and his brother's righteous. Do not be surprised, brothers,[a] that the world hates you. We know that we have passed out of death into life, because we love the brothers. Whoever does not love abides in death. Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him.

By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers. But if anyone has the world's goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God's love abide in him? Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.

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Democracy in danger - Gowon
From OLUWOLE AKINBOYEWA, Abuja

Friday, April 17, 2009 Elder statesman and Nigeria’s former military head of state, Dr. Yakubu Gowon, has predicted that high profile corruption and long neglect of the masses’ welfare since 1960, may soon make the preferred civilian administration lose its valued place to options
Gowon, who gave the warning at the launch of a 24-member national working committee on the establishment of a functional social security policy, headed by him, in Abuja on Thursday, said the continued presence of corruption, its attendant unemployment and poverty; social insecurity and uncoordinated governments’ policies and programmes, over the decades, would make government by the people lose its appeal.
He explained that though, the citizenry had faithfully been expressing their choice through the ballot box in the last few years, they may abandon the system, when their struggle for survival had left them with little strength to defend that system, owing to hunger, poverty, weak or non-existent basic infrastructure, social injustice and physical insecurity.

“Nigerians have continued to be traumatized by poverty that they are left with little or no time to defend democratic ideas and ethos. While democracy remains the _expression of the people’s choice through the ballot, the struggle for survival has continued to take away the little strength left in our people to stand and defend that choice.

“Unfortunately, democracy may not take firm roots in an environment of debilitating and excruciating hunger and poverty, compounded by weak or non-existent basic infrastructure, social injustice and physical insecurity. Democracy may soon lose its appeal, unless Nigeria comes up with policies, which are designed to save the poor from getting poorer…,” he stressed.

The Nigerian civil war hero queried the unpopular social, economic and political policies of successive administrations in 49 years of sovereignty, which at best, continued to identify national problems without impact, as witnessed by the “gradual but steady decline in the people’s standard of living, unpredictable crude oil market prices, rising unemployment, inclement business environment, widening income inequality, rising cost of goods and services and above all, the current financial and economic meltdown.”

Gen. Gowon called for the establishment of functional people-oriented policies, aimed at saving the poor from getting poorer and redressing the tempo of over 50 per cent of the population from falling below the poverty line, through a suitable and adequate shelter, suitable and adequate food, reasonable national minimum wage, old age care and pensions, employment, sick benefits and the disabled welfare to all Nigerians.

He expressed dismay that despite many social programmes championed by organs of governments and substantial funding by international organizations over the years, there had been no substantial positive effect of poverty reduction in the country.

Launching the committee, the Labour and Productivity Minister, Prince Adetokunbo Kayode, declared that the 2004 Pension Reform Scheme had not succeeded beyond the establishment level because there was no empowering Nigeria Social Insurance Trust Fund (NSITF), providing the needed fund to implement the policy.

Kayode, who also lamented the failure of two existing laws empowering the scheme, blamed the various ministries, departments and agencies, tasked to providing some social parameters for the scheme of engaging in uncoordinated programmes not helpful to reaping the expected social benefits.

The minister referred to some constitutional provisions and international conventions supporting the national social security policy, promising that Nigeria would this have a functional and lasting social security policy once and for all.

He highlighted the committee’s terms of reference, which included recommending a policy serving the benefits of the formal and informal sectors including the poor and rich, the urban, rural and informal dwellers, a robust and sustainable financing of the scheme, and an administrative implementation structure.

Kayode commended the Federal Government for its commitment to the success of the seven-point agenda, as a measure of saving the masses from untold hardship amidst plenty.

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